Today is Valentines Day and partnerships are being created, celebrated and strengthened by acts of love, gifts, messages and more.
I have been thinking about the values we put on relationships. A marriage for example brings happiness and stability to individuals, to families and to communities. But marriage, like anything else needs good care and maintenance if it is to last.
In many places today some 40% or more of all marriages end in divorce. Is this because marriage is out of date? Could it be perhaps that marriages fail because the arrangement itself is faulty?
A marriage deserves priority and only by sharing can people grow together. A person who is primarily concerned with what he or she is getting from the marriage will never be truly happy, even if that individual remarries several times. In all honesty I think a marriage works only when each partner focuses more on giving than receiving. As we grow our needs change, to be able to adapt and to understand what our partner needs, feels or wants, is fundamental to a sustainable relationship.
Why should relationships in business be any different?
A person who feels they aren’t valued or important may move on, have an affair or file for divorce. They will probably confide in their closest friends and tell others of their bad experience.
Online and social media give us the opportunity to learn what our customers prefer and want, and we are able to have conversations with them. By talking to them and asking questions we are taking an interest in them. They feel valued, important and involved.
Rather than blasting marketing messages at them, and acting in a ‘controlling’ way, find out what they want and prefer to read and see. Work at the relationship, invest time in understanding your audience.
A bit like a square peg in a round hole, old school marketing techniques don’t fit in a social space. Try not to see the likes of Twitter and Facebook as just another marketing tool, but as a way of getting to know your audience, serving your customers and developing customer loyalty.










